When is it too much? How do I know if I’m over-correcting?
I have had Migraines since I was a girl, elementary school age. Very much like the commercial that says “If you have migraines, then you know pain.” I hate that commercial by the way. No amount of aspirin and caffeine or acetaminophen and caffeine will take away a migraine. You might as well go sniff a jar of vapor menthol or rub it on your feet. Seriously? I’ve tried many home remedies, vitamin therapies, acupuncture and herbal remedies.
Yesterday I found something new. At least it seemed new at that moment. It’s the neck theory. The cause of my suffering is because my head is big and my neck is weak. According to the Texas Migraine Clinic. My headaches don’t exactly fit the profile that he describes, such as starting around 2:00 in the afternoon, but I can sometimes lessen the pain be lying on my stomach and turning my head to the side. I’m game for trying new things, so I did one of the exercises that he suggested. OOPS! I strained my neck. I’m an overachiever.
But migraines aren’t the true point of my post, just the digression. Over-correcting is my point. In my effort to make improvements or even to adjust my life, I sometimes make things worse. It throws me into a panic sometimes when things go wrong. I’m still learning to let things gradually adjust. How do I know when something needs fixed verses needing an adjustment. Or when do I leave well enough alone?
If I’m in a panic, even if something needs correction, I need to wait. If I’m in a panic, my view of life is skewed. Distorted. Warped. Waiting a while is my better choice. Breathing and sitting with the fear of falling all the way to the bottom. What if I allowed the horrible bad thing to happen? Life should come with a warning label saying, Trying too hard could break something. It’s like the nail head that you hit just one more time so it’s good and hammered.
- If it feels forced it probably is
- Steady effort is effective also
- Youthful exuberance has it’s place
- So does sound advice from the experienced
- Live and learn
- If you don’t get it right the first time, do it again.
The only time panic serves me well is during a true crisis. If action needs to take place immediately or someone needs an ambulance, I’m your huckleberry. The rest of the time, I need to calm down and sit down. Thinking clearly is using all of your instincts for the best benefit. Too much hammering breaks the nail. Cranking a nut too tightly can break it. Tight is good enough.
- Aura without migraine (brianalvey.com)
- School (themysteriouslava.wordpress.com)
- Overachiever (matchabunny.com)
- Confessions of an Overachiever (synapticbuzz.wordpress.com)
- Overachieving students make fruit salad weighing 15,000 pounds (grist.org)
- Tripping Out: We All Have Baggage. (elephantjournal.com)
- Overachiever Syndrome (pmhealth.wordpress.com)
- When I was 16 I Requested an Application to Oxford… (vuittonchanelandthelaw.wordpress.com)