Strengthening Character

At the end of the day, it’s only you. Alone. How you met each challenge and each conflict was up to you. Did you face your demons or pretend they didn’t exist?

There’s a lot of talk about being real. Authenticity. For me, it’s not always easy to be myself. It’s not that I try to fake people out by pretending to be someone I’m not. I’m not an impressive person and never wish to be.

My nature is to relate to people on the level they are. You might think me inauthentic at times because I’m a human who has been damaged by life. My cracks show.

When I feel I’m in an emotionally dangerous situation I’ll plaster a fake smile on and spout out the trite phrases, whatever it takes to get me through the situation. This is the game we call life.

Our character is built by the choices we make. We develop strength or kindness or wisdom through practice. Such as continuing to practice grace and mercy if you’re wishing to become a more forgiving person. Truthfully, it comes down to living intentionally, as best you can.

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3 thoughts on “Strengthening Character

  1. I also struggle to be authentic all the time. In person i can be lost for words or treat people aloofly but it’s only because I’m uncertain or caught out by something. Hard to get it right all the time!

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    1. This is so common too. Some of us process information in the unconscious part of our minds and if we’re thinking consciously we can’t locate the information. I can type my password better if I’m not thinking about it. Of course that’s not the only reason. Sometimes my emotions trip me up.

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