I’m important. Can’t they see that? If I’m driving and want to go faster, why don’t get out of my way. If I’m shopping and the line is long at the check out, a new lane should be opened and I should be first in line. After all I’m important.
We spend most of our lives feeling this way and suddenly it dawns on us that we aren’t important. Psychologist call this entitlement. Did they have entitlement in the Bronze ages? Or in the 1800’s? I know in our culture it’s huge.
The alternative, the truth you realize when you learn you’re not the center of the universe, is that life really doesn’t notice you. The ants keep working. The rain keeps pouring. The birds keep screeching. Life keeps moving. If anything, we are in it’s way.
44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. – Matthew 5:44-45 New International Version®, NIV®
I have to remind myself of this a lot. Especially when I’m in my car and the other drivers are in my way. It’s not personal. We are all travelling and we just happen to be on the same road.
- My experience as a student (parsoneault.wordpress.com)
- Nothing more improtant than a Dream (benszela.wordpress.com)
- The Ashtanga Opening Chant. ~ Melanie Cooper (elephantjournal.com)
- The penitent man kneels…. (slalwani15.wordpress.com)
- I and Love and You (bucketfullofgraces.wordpress.com)
- Love Your Enemies. (eufordphoenix.wordpress.com)
- Forgiveness (sharingthelightblog.com)
- A poem entitled Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelou (christinecynthia.wordpress.com)
- The Sociopath Cocktail: Entitlement with a Splash of Delusion (fromawhispertoaroar.com)