Finding My Zen

What’s a worthy life? A life that you can say is enjoyable and fulfilling? For me, it requires choices. I look at many people I know and listen to them complain about their spouse or job, and I wonder who is in charge of their life.

Working long days can be exhausting, and I prefer lounging in my pajamas all day. Who wouldn’t? I love binge-watching a television series, too, but that’s my dark side. The better part of me keeps coming back to things I love as well as being complete. We need work, rest, and fun. For me, my mind needs to reset, recalibrate, and slow itself.

Your Speed

I like the analogy of vinyl. Is your speed a 45 or 78? As a side note, most of our podcasts are listened to at 1.5 times their regular speed. We must maximize our consumption. More information, please. Now. For all who feel life is rushing by faster, it might be.


do not be misled into thinking
you should be doing more.

rest.
feed.
heal.
hold.
feel.

these are the seeds. the beginning.
be gentle with it all.

- holy days

by Vicki Rivard

False

I grew up thinking that if you ate your vegetables, you were allowed dessert. It’s the reward system. I even believed that if you saved money, it sat in an account waiting like a loyal friend when you needed it. Of course we believed these things, because even our Grimms’ Fairy Tales had been edited for children’s innocent ears.

If I sound a little down, it’s okay, I’ll take a nap and be fine. Sundays are good for that. This week I must take care of myself first, as in, put on my oxygen mask first. Yeah, I have to remember this because it’s essential. More important than jobs, money, houses, cars, spouses or even other people.

A slower-paced life means making time to enjoy your mornings, instead of rushing off to work in a frenzy.

Ten Essential Rules
Short

“You are your best thing”

Toni Morrison, Beloved

A slower-paced life means making time to enjoy your mornings, instead of rushing off to work in a frenzy.

Do less
Be present 
Disconnect 
Focus on people 
Appreciate nature 
Eat slower
Drive slower 
Find pleasure in anything 
Single task 
Breathe

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